Dr CrystalHeart, Founder of WomenAreVotes
From the brutal and animal like invasion of Ukraine by Putin or Wagner’s crash, to the killing of young Sara Sharif in England, humans have proven less human and more animal-like, here’s why and also, how to get humans back on the road to humanity…
If you’re like most people, you want to “get to the bottom of it” so I’ve divided this into sections (headings) that you can jump to at will, though caveat emptor, I would advise a sequential approach, but some people just don’t have the patience, or are too judgmental or self-absorbed to follow a natural flow!
It all starts with a dream: a short summary
To lay out a globally acceptable perhaps disruptive framework for a perfect, sustainable world where the people on this planet are finally safe, healthy, and prosperous, with a robust set of rules and laws enforced using technology and a global police force to give everyone the right to the pursuit of happyness as outlined in the US constitution along with its first amendment freedom of speech, ending exploitation of other humans, nature and animals to the extent humanly possible. And then, sell the idea to you, the people of this planet!
- Introduction
- How did we get here?
- Why is migration the unseen elephant in the room?
- How do we get to a better place?
1 Introduction
Having spent two decades teaching Business Owners, Corporate Professionals, and non-profits leadership, communication, positive attitude, team building, and other “soft” skills, I learned long ago to believe in the impossible, because that word exists in our minds! Inventors and pioneers through the ages have proven us wrong, from the world’s flat days, the dark ages, and whatever not this planet has endured to a somewhat more liveable version of this planet (though far from ideal on so many counts) as we see today.
I couldn’t think of a simpler and more relevant title for this post, if you wish to read my past writings, they’re stowed away at BlahBlah; some are actually fun! The starting point was my thought process, I never could get myself to blindly follow any ideology, faith, or concept or accept rules thrust upon me without once attempting to understand and challenge them with an open mind. Surprise! Billions on this planet do NOT do it! They just blindly accept what their forefathers, friends, government, or “fellow countrymen” or “fellow faith or ideology followers” tell them. A recent distinction is between Wikipedia and AI, both attempting to provide a more rational and historical view of the same things, whether people believe them or not is another matter.
I have been writing for almost two decades, especially after 9/11 as I was born in a country and a faith (Pakistan & Islam, trust me due no fault of mine) both of whom were at center stage at that time for all the wrong reasons (which weren’t so wrong after all) — I tried to build bridges and clarify misconceptions (to the Rotaries besides tons of counterproductive arguments on social media often with people of the same or similar nation/faith that often resulted in abuse and dire threats to my life and person) but not with a great deal of success as the baggage of being a Pakistani and a Muslim is a motherlode and myriad of perceptions any decent human can do well without. Yet I carried on, despite abuse and life threats by individuals and even officials, to the point of being persona non grata in my place of birth! What crime of mine except to act as if I was an American born instead entitled to the First Amendment, the right to free speech! Something sadly not upheld in at least 80% of the planet we live in, South America, Asia, Africa, Eastern Europe — a long list.
So it was a question of time that took me to the realization of the obvious, we live in two worlds on this planet. One (for the most part) where human rights, respect, and dignity are valued and upheld (“the free west” the US, UK, EU, Australia, NZ, and to a lesser extent South Korea, Singapore & Japan, some parts of MidEast) regardless of color, faith, gender, class, tribe, education, etc and the other where the exact opposite holds true i.e. people are widely and freely discriminated for the same reasons! Interestingly the word racism has been used for decades connoting a white vs. the rest view of it. In my personal experience and observation, I found it to be completely untrue! I found people of the same color, race, faith, etc. mistreat each other beyond your wildest imagination. Please read the above line again and let it sink in, if reason allows! And if not then think WHY is there so much pressure from the latter part of the world to migrate to the “free West” — if reason allows you to answer so reasonably?
2 How did we get here?
Easy! Just read human history, from tribes to religions to empires to as of now nation states, whether or not democratic in letter or spirit: just how many different forms of indoctrination have we suffered (or accepted) on this planet? Each with its own baggage, its own set of rules and doctrines that haunt us with hate and discrimination for the most part. A feeling, and worse, the belief of superiority and power given to us at birth, for, if you ask me, the wrong reasons. For those who believe in the Unseen, how could any God out there choose one and hate the rest of His/Her creations? It makes no sense to me, or anyone with a logical head on their shoulders! Ask yourself:
- How could Volvo, GM, Ford, Mercedes, BM, Porsche, Rolls, Bentley, Pizza Hut, PF Chang, M&S, and others endorse one of their products by demeaning or creating hate for their other products?
- How could a University or Institution praise one student at the expense of vilification of others?
- How could an organization praise one Manager at the expense of demeaning others?
- How could a newspaper or blog praise one of their stories and claim the rest are bogus?
- How could a God love one kind of His or Her creations and hate the rest?
It makes no sense to me! Does it to you? Reason notwithstanding? Or just a blind faith in a thousands of years old scripture followed blindly? Why?
Well, that’s one of the reasons we got here! The other is the powerful who used (read: abused) religion, nation-state, patriotism, etc. to infuse their people with hatred for those they had a conflict with. To this day we see it in action: just open the news and you shall see a divisive world craftily divided! For some the aim is power, for others it’s commercial, but the end result is the same. A world that’s far more imperfect and imbalanced on so many counts than it should be.
In short, one rather small part of the world we live in has access to a good life, which I define as equality in every sense of the word, rule of law, good governance (overall not necessarily perfect), healthcare, education, and so on, the other part lacks these graphically, why else do organizations like the UN exist? What if I may ask is the reason behind the 17 Sustainable Goals of the UN? Why do so many charities and human rights organizations exist? Why are there so many comparative organizations that benchmark different nations on different yardsticks, and so many nations rank dismally on basic parameters of human and societal needs?
3 Why is migration the unseen elephant in the room?
An obvious result of an imbalanced world is reflected in migration to greener pastures known by many names such as the free world, the West, developed nations, and so forth, comprising as earlier stated the US, Canada, UK, EU, Australia, and NZ with South Korea, Japan, Singapore and some in the MidEast on the fringes. The pressure is so immense that these “greener pasture nations” have put a lot of controls on immigration, which results in people exploiting their migration policies using fraud or simply risking their lives and even dying as we saw in the recent disaster off Italian waters, certainly not the first, and logically not the last. People leave like sheep, from an unsafe to a safer area, to the extent they can possibly “make it.”
This leads to another issue: a blatant and clearly obvious lack of integration of some migrants in host nations. While some migrants assimilate, there are many who do not, creating silos of their culture, traditions, and faith in the host nations. Now some of the people who migrate are from, may I say, “compatible” nations where faith, culture, values, etc. are similar and hence are easily assimilated. Not every though. What is appalling is that some migrant groups, despite equal treatment and access to opportunities expect even more! These are often people whose nations have been overtly or covertly at war with the host nations they migrate to, simply because of incompatible faith and values. Now when these people migrate there is a pandemonium of sorts, and the host nation is pretty much uneasy. Let me illustrate this with an example, Bear in mind the same example can be given for other groups too, I am just using one that I belong to so the reader can’t blame me for bias against other groups. Birmingham and Manchester are mid-sized towns in the UK, both are famous for a large migrant population from Pakistan or other Muslim nations. Often one finds a very obvious lack of integration of these communities in what might be called “British Values or Culture” most of which is visible in their attire, customs, and practices. I wouldn’t wish to offend any group hence I would let the reader fill in the blanks with publicly available data that supports my premise. In short, this leads to anger and animosity in the local communities culminating in bias, hate crimes, or just plain though understandable resentment of a group of people who were, are, and remain a clear misfit in their culture and society on many counts.
The Conservatives in the West are more vocal about this lack of integration. Personally, I am closer to the perspective of the Conservatives though not in all areas, however, I am aghast for example at instances like the murder of the 10-year-old young angel Sara Sharif who was apparently murdered by her family of Pakistani origin who ran away to Pakistan after their heinous crime. There are umpteen instances of “honor killing” where a woman is killed for marrying “outside their communities.” These women belong to different religions and communities, all I can say is that they are not of the dominant faith (Christianity) and are often migrants from Asia. A quick Google search on “honor killing of Asian women in the UK/US (etc.)” will reveal what has long been public knowledge. This does not mean that criminals do not exist in other communities, we all know who Lucy Letby is and what she did or the killers of Riley Ann Sawyers in the US. I am talking about crimes committed due to a lack of integration in host societies. There are many a story in the West where members of migrant communities have shared not only their exploits but also how they were able to entice the locals to team up with them in their crimes. Often this lack of integration is wilful due to a contrasting value set and hence despicable.
This leads us to the root cause of this all, migrants from many communities “escape” to the West in search of money, safety, security, and equal treatment they do not get in their countries of origin. However, once they are given citizenship by Western nations they start imposing their values and culture on the host nations instead of attempting to integrate. Thus the very intent to migrate in my humble opinion is malicious. The intent often is to further financial goals in a country they knew very well were incompatible with their way of life, faith, or values. In their private banter, they often find reason to despise their generous hosts and woefully remember their former lands, actively involved in political or other areas of their former lands. Detached from their newfound home except in pursuit of wealth or opportunities.
What is ironic, perhaps even beautiful is how the West embraces these migrants, with all their faults, the equity, equality, humanity, and comforts they are given, the opportunity to integrate, thrive, and bloom, while the lack of reciprocity from some migrants groups angers the Conservatives in host lands.
So we see people from all over the “rest of the world” minus the “West” blindly finding avenues to migrate. For all, what I consider to be, the wrong reasons. Let me reverse the scenario to illustrate. How many Americans, Englishmen or women, Australians, EU nationals, Canadians, or Kiwis does one hear of who immigrate to India, Pakistan, Nigeria, Kenya, and so forth? And those who do, how well are they integrated in those societies? Are they afforded places of worship and equal treatment as their nations offer migrants? The Cow is a sacred animal in India, eating it is hence not favorably looked upon, that’s just one aspect, rapes, and murders are common in most Asian and African nations, policing is at best a joke, corruption is rampant and religious extremism destroys whatever hope there is of human growth and progress. Oh please do not tell me about “the billion people trillion dollar markets” the way many see those nations, numbers who can buy Western or Chinese products. These are nations where governance has failed, and that has forced those who “can” to escape, or at least send their children to the West for a “better life.” even “patriotic” Army Generals of these countries send their families to the West! The irony is but an understatement.
Another way to look at the same situation is charities and human rights organizations, nonprofits included, apparently the prime focus of these is serving these poor and corrupt nations to do to a minute extent what their governments should have done in the first place: given them security, sustenance, and hope. How many charities from India, Pakistan, or Kenya serve the poor and homeless in the UK, Australia, or the US?
Many call these nations “poor” — I find it laughable that these countries muster billions of dollars to feed their often hefty armies but find nothing for economic development! Pakistan spends 50% of her tax income on her army, about $15bn a year and counting perks excluded, Indians, the raison d’etre for animosity campaign in Pakistan spend about 6 times more $90bn on her army! It’s a long list for the reader to independently assess. I ask, why can’t nations like India and Pakistan be friends? Why can’t the Palestinians and Israelis be friends? Are we all not human after all? The pain an Indian or Pakistani national suffers due to lawlessness, corruption, and horrible governance is it nor the same? The Singaporean PM claimed that 50% of Indian political leaders were corrupt, I’d say probably 80% or more for Pakistan are corrupt with similar stats for other Asian and African nations.
Yet another angle to look at the same situation is colonialism. Like racism, it is often equated with “white Western people occupying for hundreds of years lands of much of this planet” — Now truth be told, as a Pakistani I still to this day see the infrastructure the British left behind, from the GT or Grand Trunk Road to the Railways and so forth, their intellectual contribution is starkly visible in both warring Indian and Pakistani Governments, both despite hatred for each other follow British laid law & order, military, policing, and governance systems, well in paper so to speak! In reality, they flout them and couple them with a corrupt form of democracy that on the outside looks Kosher to the world but reeks of complete betrayal of the basic concepts of democracy and whatever a free society should look like. I am no fan of the ex-Pakistani Prime Minister Imran Khan, a man who was a male chauvinist and megalomaniac in his approach on countless occasions, yet he was “the better of two evils” between the existing lot of leaders that ask any Pakistani and they will tell you or simply google court cases against them globally! Yet as he fell out of favor with the same military establishment that brought him (and all other leaders) to power even taking his name on national media was banned! Which free democracy treats its people like this? None that I know of! In the balance, ex-colonies that are today free of colonial masters are still not free! They are now enslaved by their own people often using the illusion of democracy that is neither believed in nor practiced at any level. In India and Pakistan even today there are dynasties of politicians, it is like a family business!
Migration is a symptom of a much bigger issue, the lack of good governance, law and order, and equal treatment in almost 80% of the world that we live in, reflected in unequal and undue pressure to migrate to nations that do care for their citizens, and instead of integrating oft times imposing their culture, values and faith sometimes incompatible with the welcoming nations.
4 How do we get to a better place?
- On religion, I believe we need to think beyond it, I wrote about it in KOK or Kode of Konduct, in short, respecting all but falling shy of using religion as a basis for laws and governance. I do believe in freedom of expression so the critics of religion shouldn’t be reigned in, if God is so powerful why worry about critics?
- On policing, I wrote about GlobalPolice which pretty much sums up the idea.
- I even wrote about improving democracy, something considered sacrosanct by many, using the power of education in poor and less developed countries to beat the demons of corruption rife in the corridors of power.
- My vision is for women of the world to unite and offer us better governance models, outlined at WomenAreVotes
- If I could, I would conduct a global survey asking who in nations outside of the “Free West” EU, UK, US, Canada, NZ & Australia would like to migrate there? My guesstimate is roundabout 80% of the rest of the world would as I explained in GadhaParty — armed with that survey, global leaders can be confronted that the Free West cannot accomodate 6 billion people hence the need to take their good governance, justice and policing models to the poorer nations, I often joked with my American friends that instead of building a $22bn wall on impoverished Mexico, had Trump put the US flag there millions of Mexicans would have happily gone back to their lands.
- There is no place like home, nobody should have to leave their nation because of inequality, corruption, lawlessness and injustice. If that happens many who live in the free West today would happily go back, and only those who truly believe in Western ideals of human behavior and values may stay back reducing tensions and finally living as integrated citizens there.
- Technology, in my opinion, can quickly change the world, if we have a simplified legal and taxation system as I’ve proposed in many of my writings I foresee a world where capitalism thrives, jobs are created and safety is a given than a luxury to few in the developed world.
- My vision for armies and arms manufacturers in ultimately to be a part of the global policing system, the threats we often face are far more from the people around us than other nations.
- My vision for healthcare providers is to focus humanity on plant based diet away from fried foods and sugars to boost immunity, good weight control and a longer lifespan.
- My vision for the environment is to use robotics for farming to increase yield and to actively reduce birth rate as the planet is simply unsustainable otherwise. I have also proposed greenification of deserts and avoiding catastrophes using a realignment of water in various papers.
- My vision for education is a more nimble curriculum that prepares young people for hands on jobs especially in poor nations while giving them a taste of the arts and good human values.
- My vision for energy is to reduce consumption and encourage a shift to farming than pressuring over burdened urban spaces and scant white collar jobs.
- Outer space is a possibility to explore but with so much already on this planet it appears infantile to not focus on the low hanging fruit as above.
What is your vision of a perfect world?
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